My husband and I are coming up on our one-year anniversary on January 20th. Sometimes, it’s hard to believe an entire year has already flown by. While I could go on about how blissful it’s been, I want to keep it real—this year has been tougher than I imagined.
Marriage is a journey of learning to cooperate and compromise with another person, and that can be… interesting, to say the least. One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that when you point fingers at your spouse, it’s often like pointing them right back at yourself. It’s humbling, challenging, and beautiful all at the same time.
One tip I’ve learned and want to share is this: listen to understand, not just to hear. Truly listening means being present, empathetic, and open to your spouse’s perspective. It’s a small shift that can make a huge difference in communication and connection.
Now, I’m no therapist, but as a Christian woman who knows her Bible, I’ve come to understand that every argument and disagreement is part of a spiritual battle. Marriage—a union of man and woman coming together as one—is the exact opposite of what Satan desires. He seeks to kill, steal, and destroy. So, it’s important to remember that you’re not fighting against each other. Instead, you’re both on the same team, fighting against the enemy and his tactics. Keeping this perspective has been a powerful reminder to approach challenges with grace, prayer, and unity.
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